How to Know if a Guy has a Crush on You

The shy smiles, staring at your crush, being teased by your friends, butterflies in the stomach, endless hours of daydreaming - the memories of your first crush are difficult to capture in words. Most of the times having a crush is referred to describe the adolescent love or puppy love. There are number of ways to find out whether a guy likes you or signs that a girl likes you. It is a beautiful feeling to have someone be genuinely interested in you. If you have a guy in school or in your neighborhood, you think has a crush on you, this article will help you to know whether the guy really has a crush on you…

Is he always around or do you keep bumping into him everywhere you go?

If a guy has a crush on you, he will try and think of all the possible ways to be around you and make sure you spot him almost everywhere you go. He’ll probably take the same classes as you so that you guys can be around during the classes. He will probably be in the library sitting somewhere close by. You also might see him regularly during lunch - most of the times he seems to sit with you or somewhere close by. There might be a chance that you might bump into your own neighborhood, or at the coffee shop or eatery, which you frequent regularly. 

Does he go out of his way to help you?

When a guy has a crush on you, he will obviously care a lot about you. He might offer to help you with your math problems that you’ve been struggling for the past week. He might volunteer to teach you basketball or any other sport that he is good at. He might offer to walk you home from school when it gets late. He might pick up your bicycle if you ever fall down and make sure you are okay. If he looks at you carrying a pile of books or something heavy, he’d be the first one to offer help. 

Does he compliment you or praise you very often? 

When a guy has a crush on you, he will like every single thing about you. He might compliment you quite often telling you how great your personality is, or how he loves your outfit, or thinks you are looking stunning. He might even tell you your science project was the best of the lot, when you yourself know it wasn’t. Compliments are simple affectionate gestures, which help you to know that a person genuinely adores you. 

While in conversation, does he seem interested in things that you are talking about?

A guy, who has a crush on you, will listen to you very closely, while in conversation. He will be an engrossed listener when you are talking about things that you like or things that you hate or even about the silly things that you do. He might want to know about your long-term goals and your ideas about your future plans. So if he is taking a keen interest in everything that you have to say - he might be genuinely interested in you! 

Does he hug you, smile at you, hold your hand very often?

Body language is one of the most important elements, which will help you analyze the whole situation. He might stare at you and smile at you very often. He might hold your hand while crossing the road or might flip your hair or find some other cute way to greet you. There are several body language cues, which are signs of male attraction. His body language will usually say a lot about what he feels for you. The way he looks at you or faces you while talking or simple holds your hand at times can be ways to know what he’s thinking about you. 

Do his friends seem to know a lot about you?

Usually if a guy has a crush on you, it is most likely that he keeps discussing about you with his friends. So it is not very surprising if his friends seem to know about the little things that you keep mentioning in your conversations with the guy. His friends might even tease him a bit when you are around and if you find him blushing at the mention of your name, it is definitely a sign that the guy has a major crush on you…

Does he sound like he genuinely cares for you?

Does he seem to be worried when you are not keeping well or feeling ill? Does he often help you to cheer up when you are upset about something? Does he try to make faces, tell jokes or entertain you in any possible way when you are feeling bored or feeling depressed about something? Well if the guy has a crush on you, he will obviously care for you and want you to be happy and cheerful. 

Does he seem jealous when you tend to spend more time with another guy?

If a guy has a crush on you, the last thing he wants is some other guy spending more time with you. Most probably if the guy seems protective about you and tends to express discontent over you spending more time with some other guy - it is likely he has a huge crush on you and is very much interested in you. 

Does he ask you to go with him on prom nights or a regular Saturday night? 

One of the things that a guy will do if he has a crush on you is make sure he asks you out before prom night or for a simple Saturday night date. This is a huge sign that the guy has feelings for you. A prom night or a weekend date is supposed to be for people who like each other and hence asking you out for the same, implies that the guy is genuinely interested. 

These are just some generalized ideas, which might help you figure out whether a guy really has a crush on you. There are also some signs to know your crush likes you. In case you just can’t figure it out using these things, the best thing would be to communicate with that guy and ask him to avoid the mind-games.

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1. Take notice of how you and your body react next time you see him. If you feel nervous or feel your heart skips a beat or you start to sweat, or it feels like you can’t breathe when you’re around him, youprobably like him. When deciding about reactions, think of what could have caused them. If the boy is mean to you then you might start to sweat when you’re around him, but not because you like him.

2. Notice what you think about when you think of the guy. If thinking of him makes you nervous, excited or happy, you probably have a crush on him.

3. Notice if you try to go to the same exact place where he is. For example, when you are in school, youpass by his locker, or the places where you know he may be.

4. Notice whenever you try to make a guy jealous. This may be a sign you like him.

5. Notice if you talk to your friends about him a lot.

6. Notice whenever you try to get his attention.

7. Be aware of trying to make friends with his friends, or finding reasons to get close to him.

8. Notice whenever you try to get information about him.

9. Count how many times you think about him a day. If you think about him more than several times, youprobably like him.

10.Notice how many times you’ve tried to google his name and how many times you’ve tried to search his personal page on MYSPACE or other social networking sites.

11. Notice if your friend says you blush whenever he’s around or his name is mentioned.

12. Notice if you feel jealous when he’s around other girls and/or flirts with them.

13. Notice if your friends tell you that you were staring at him, and you don’t even realize it.

14. If you talk about him in one of your conversations to anybody who will listen, he is stuck in your mind, and you probably like him.

15. When you’re getting dressed in the morning before school you always think “Will _____ like this?” Or something similar

16. You look forward to the one class you have with him or, you are so thankful you have more than one class with him.

17. Notice if you think about him in the most random moments.

18. If you’re shy, notice when you avoid eye contact and blush when you are around him.

19. You walk by him and always glance over to see if he noticed you.

20. You think about him the most and always have a smile on your face if you do.

21. You remember incidents or moments you’ve had with him.

22. Notice if you always look to see where he is.

23. You might act differently with him than with other guys.

24. Notice if your friend says that you were doing something to get his attention, but you didn’t even knowthat you did.

25. When you go to school you always see if he is there that day or you’re always wanting to go just to see him.

26. Notice if you always think of reasons, especially the small ridiculous reasons, to talk to him or tocontinue a conversation.

27. Notice if you are the first one to text him or to start a conversation with him.

28. You can’t sleep well.

29. Notice if you get a sudden thrill whenever you hear his name.

30. Your always thinking “Does my hair look good?” or something like that.

31. Think if you want to hug or kiss him!!

32. Finally, the biggest sign that there is: Were you thinking of him as you read this whole page? Did yousearch for this article so you could find out if you were crushing on him? If the answer to both of those is “Yes,” then you like him a lot!

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The first step is to admit it to yourself that you are in love. Then, you just have to share it with them. Since you have to tell them one way or another, all you have to do is choose which way.

The old fashion way: Call, blurt it out, and hang up. 

Alternately: Call, don’t talk and dedicate play their favorite song. 

This seems kind of stupid, but romantic! You may look like a coward, and they won’t be 100% sure it’s you, but it’s enough to get their attention. 

 

The romantic way: Give them a rose or a love letter, or draw something.

In other words, use your talents and make your statement as an artist. You can write something of your own, or copy a “I love you” quote or poem (you can find them after a brief search over the Web). You don’t have to give them yourself. You can leave them in their desk, their pocket or outside their house. You can also send them flowers (guys admit that they love being sent flowers) including a special dedication. 

 

The heroic way: Throw it into their face

Better choose to tell them when they least expect to hear it, like when you are having dinner at a restaurant and they can’t overreact. However, you can tell them any time you want, when you are jogging together, when you are stuck in a traffic jam…just take a big breath and go for it!

The modern way: Send an e-mail gift card or text message.

This is less painful. You don’t have to look them in the eye while telling them. But you risk that they may not answer; at least not immediately. Maybe they won’t check their email, or may have forgotten their cell phone at home. In case they doesn’t answer you, can either assume that they don’t want to, or that you are a bit unlucky and their phone was stolen that day! If you can stand the entire waiting thing, you can try something like that.

The devious way: Make them tell you first.

You can simply ask them if they love you during a romantic night. They wouldn’t like to spoil the atmosphere – if you are not afraid to be a little more provocative, you can ask him between the sheets (the worst answer they can give you is yes). You can also ask in front of your friends during a conversation or during a table game. They’ll spit it out first, unless they want to make a fool out of themselves.

The childish way: Besides funny notes and little hand-made presents, you can write a “I love you” note and tie it to a rock. Then throw the rock into their room. You might break a window or two, but it’ll be worth it. They say the only difference between a man and a boy are their toys. So, if that is true, he’ll love it!

The extreme way: Print their photo, write “I love you” on it, and post it somewhere they’ll see it for sure! Which train do they take to go to work? Which building do they see every morning when they open their window? Does their house have an elevator? That’s a good choice!

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some says… 

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Yellow- support our troops, suicide prevention, adoptive parents

Red- fight against AIDS and HIV, heart disease

Purple-  domestic violence, Alzheimer’s, animal abuse, the victims of 9/11 including the police and firefighters

Lavender- This color is a symbol for general cancer awareness.

Periwinkle-eating disorders 

Blue-  drunk driving, child abuse, the victims of hurricane Katrina

Dark Blue-  arthritis, child abuse prevention, victim’s rights, free speech

Light Blue- childhood cancer 

Teal- sexual assault 

Orange-  leukemia

White- innocence, violence against women, peace, right to life

Pearl- lung cancer

Grey-  diabetes, asthma, brain cancer

Green house gases stay can stay in the atmosphere for an amount of years ranging from decades to hundreds and thousands of years. No matter what we do, global warming is going to have some effect on Earth. Here are the 5 deadliest effects of global warming.

5. Spread of disease As northern countries warm, disease carrying insects migrate north, bringing plague and disease with them. Indeed some scientists believe that in some countries thanks to global warming, malaria has not been fully eradicated.

4. Warmer waters and more hurricanes As the temperature of oceans rises, so will the probability of more frequent and stronger hurricanes. We saw in this in 2004 and 2005.

3. Increased probability and intensity of droughts and heat waves Although some areas of Earth will become wetter due to global warming, other areas will suffer serious droughts and heat waves. Africa will receive the worst of it, with more severe droughts also expected in Europe. Water is already a dangerously rare commodity in Africa, and according to the Intergovernmental Panel on Climate Change, global warming will exacerbate the conditions and could lead to conflicts and war.

2. Economic consequences Most of the effects of anthropogenic global warming won’t be good. And these effects spell one thing for the countries of the world: economic consequences. Hurricanes cause do billions of dollars in damage, diseases cost money to treat and control and conflicts exacerbate all of these.

1. Polar ice caps melting The ice caps melting is a four-pronged danger.

First, it will raise sea levels. There are 5,773,000 cubic miles of water in ice caps, glaciers, and permanent snow. According to the National Snow and Ice Data Center, if all glaciers melted today the seas would rise about 230 feet. Luckily, that’s not going to happen all in one go! But sea levels will rise.

Second, melting ice caps will throw the global ecosystem out of balance. The ice caps are fresh water, and when they melt they will desalinate the ocean, or in plain English - make it less salty. The desalinization of the gulf current will “screw up” ocean currents, which regulate temperatures. The stream shutdown or irregularity would cool the area around north-east America and Western Europe. Luckily, that will slow some of the other effects of global warming in that area!

Third, temperature rises and changing landscapes in the artic circle will endanger several species of animals. Only the most adaptable will survive.

Fourth, global warming could snowball with the ice caps gone. Ice caps are white, and reflect sunlight, much of which is relected back into space, further cooling Earth. If the ice caps melt, the only reflector is the ocean. Darker colors absorb sunlight, further warming the Earth.

Robert, sometimes known as Robert the Doll, is a doll that was once owned by Key West painter and author Robert Eugene Otto. The doll, which is allegedly cursed, has become a fixture of ghost tours in the Key West area since it was inducted into the Fort East Martello Museum.

Eugene was given the doll in 1904 by a servant who, according to legend, was skilled in black magic and voodoo and was displeased with the family. Soon afterward it became clear that there was something eerie about the doll. Eugene’s parents said they often heard him talking to the doll and that the doll appeared to be talking back. Although at first they assumed that Eugene was simply answering himself in a changed voice, they later believed that the doll was actually speaking.

Neighbors claimed to see the doll moving from window to window when the family was out. The Otto family swore that sometimes the doll would emit a terrifying giggle and that they caught glimpses of it running from room to room. In the night Eugene would scream, and when his parents ran to the room they would find furniture knocked over and Eugene in bed, looking incredibly scared, telling them that “Robert did it!”.

When Eugene died in 1972, the doll was left in the attic until the house was bought again. The new family included a ten year old girl, who became Robert’s new owner. It was not long before the girl began screaming out in the night, claiming that Robert moved about the room and even attempted to attack her on multiple occasions. More than thirty years later, she still tells interviewers that the doll was alive and wanted to kill her.

The doll is annually rotated to the Old Post Office and Customhouse in October, with museum staff claiming that strange activity in the museum increases during such times.

The doll made an appearance at Taps CON, a paranormal convention held in Clearwater, Florida in May 2008. This was the first time that it had left Key West, Florida in the 105 years of its existence.

Individuals who desire to visit Robert in the Fort East Martello Museum and wish to take a picture of him, according to legend, the person must ask the doll politely, and if he does not agree (by tipping his head to one side) and the individual takes a picture anyway, then the doll will curse the person and their family.

The movie Child’s Play, was inspired by Robert the Doll.

The Robert Doll has an Aura

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blue- cervical cancer

periwinkle- eating disorders

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